why do some of y’all insist on fetishizing first time mlm sex in fic. like what is it about first times specifically that is SO fascinating that you gotta write shit like “what a strange feeling it was to be kissing a man!!!! his lips were not soft and yielding and submissive like a woman’s, but hard and muscular and dominant like a man’s!!!!!” like have you EVER kissed a person. do you really think this is what gay men think about when they kiss their partners. do you think lips have muscles. stop being weird